It is very common to hear expletives (euphemism for CCB, F*CK etc etc) from people who seems able to inject naturally in their conversation..

When i was still in NS, carrying the SAR21, standing at the gates and oogling at girls checking visitors/staffs passes or ICs, I was so bored that i thought of a thesis to write should i major in psychology in NUS.

My research topic i came out with was "Why human beings use vulgarities? or "The purposes of vulgarities in daily conversation and the effects on human behaviour."

On a sidenote, I was chatting with A and M when doing duty at that time. They said studying psychology can be a counsellor next time. I don't understand. I think studying philosophy will be a better choice for a counsellor. It's his job to talk some sense and life philosophy to the person on counselling. Shouldnt it be this case?

Anyway, back on my thesis, i even thought of some of my survey questions to be asked. For example,

How often do you use vulgarities?"
1. Not at all.
2. Only when agitated.
3. Once every 10 sentences.
4. Once every 4 sentences.
5. Every sentences.

And

What language are your vulgarities? Please give examples."
1. English
2. Mandarin
3. Hokkien
4. Others

Ok, enough of crapping. Even though i didnt study psychology, i managed to come out with some reasons why people use vulgarities, what they are thinking when they use and what is the effect they wish to impose on people they talk to when using vulgarities...

Having said that, i found myself a big problem. If people should say vulgarities, especially F**k you to me when i did nothing wrong in the very FIRST place, i would get very piss. It doesnt help either if it was said in a joking tone.

Like someone has said, im pain in the arse.

Sometimes, a little trick or test on people around you could reveal their hidden true self to you.

I've tried and im quite dissappointing with the outcome.

Life is unfair. Being nice wont survive. No one will reciprocate.

Dont expect too much. In the end, dissappointment is inevitable.